One complaint I hear from a lot of my female friends is that guys just don't know how to give a woman an orgasm, or they just don't care to. As a guy that prides himself on being able to get a woman off (hopefully multiple times), I have to say this just isn't acceptable. Sure, your orgasm is fun... but that's the easy part. The hard part, and the FUN part, is getting HER off!

This post assumes that you actually care about giving your lover an orgasm. If you don't, and you only care about cumming and going to sleep, then move on. If you do care, however, here are some of my time-tested techniques that will get her off both with her clit and her G-spot.

The cheapest, and all natural way to get her off via her clit is to use your tongue, your mouth, and your hands. Rub her clit gently, nibble on it, lick it, see what turns her on while you're doing it and soon you'll be giving her a mind blowing clitoral orgasm. Persistence pays off in this case, as some woman take longer than others to have an orgasm, but the chance of success is high if you do it right.

So what if you've done everything you possibly can and she still doesn't have a clitoral orgasm? That's when you bring in the big guns! Vibrators, and especially high power vibrators like the Hitachi Magic Wand or the Miracle Massager, will induce a mind blowing orgasm in her quite quickly. Some women can barely handle 30 seconds with the Magic Wand before they start going insane!

So what if your lover just isn't able to have an orgasm through stimulating her clitoris? Well, you can always try a G-spot orgasm. You'll have to work quite a bit harder for this, but it is possible. After an immense amount of foreplay, gently put one or two fingers up inside of her vagina and make a "come here" gesture towards you. You should pay attention to her body language to see if she is getting anything out of it. You'll definitely know when she starts feeling it, and then when she does, continue your motion and add some clitoral stimulation with a vibrator, your mouth, or your other hand.

If using your hand just isn't enough, there are attachments you can buy for the Magic Wand, as well as vibrators that are specifically designed for G-spot stimulation.

So what happens if none of these methods work and your lover just isn't capable of having an orgasm? Well, it is normal for a significant portion of the female population not to have an orgasm. Don't feel bad because you can't give her an orgasm, but instead feel great that you tried your best to give her one!

Orgasms for a man are EASY to understand.

You simply thrust, get aroused, finish, and go to sleep =)

Most men can only have one type of orgasm... after which they usually lose their erection temporarily before they can get hard and have another.

Women however, can have MANY different types of orgasms.

These orgasms range from those that are barely noticeable to her man, to SCREAMING, TOE-CURLING, even bed soaking squirting orgasms (Woo!)

And....

THERE ARE ALL SORTS OF ORGASMS IN BETWEEN THOSE EXTREMES!

And...unlike men, the TYPE of orgasm a woman has is often 100% CONTROLLABLE by her sexual partner... YOU!

One of the first steps to giving your girl the strongest orgasms of her life is RECOGNIZING that YOU have control over her orgasms.

Lucky you =)

My point is that you should never blame your girl for not coming. Always be honest with yourself, and ask yourself if you are really sexually satisfying her.

Let's talk about some of the types of orgasms women are capable of having.

Foreplay Orgasms:

These orgasms take place during foreplay (or "pre-penetration" as I like to call it).

Foreplay orgasms are sooo important... because they allow your lover to "warm up" and have multiple orgasms later when you penetrate her =)

Every GREAT lover should have the following foreplay orgasms in his playbook:

Nipple Orgasm: Not all women can have an orgasm through nipple stimulation alone, but since a personally know a few who can I had to put it in here to make the article complete!

Clitoral Orgasm: This orgasm concentrates on the clitoris. Not as intense as the deep spot and other vaginal orgasms but still a great warm up and relatively easy to give.

"Deep Spot" Orgasm: The "deep spot" orgasm is often the first time many woman have a true "internal" orgasm, as it's usually easier for a woman to have one of these than it is for her to have one during sex.

"G-Spot" Orgasm: Similar to the deep spot orgasm but not quite as intense. Still a great orgasm to have in the bag of tricks to get her "primed" for multiples during sex.

Now let's talk about some of the orgasms women are capable of having during PENETRATION:

Penetration Orgasms:

Vaginal Orgasm: Normal orgasm while you are inside of her, much like the "deep spot" orgasm. Usually more intense than any foreplay orgasm but for some woman very difficult to achieve. Far easier to achieve AFTER a foreplay orgasm.

Anal orgasm: This occurs when you have a clitoral or vaginal orgasm during "rear entry". It feels very different to a girl than a clitoral or vaginal orgasm alone =)

Multiple Orgasms: Multiple orgasms are when your lover has an orgasm and you give her another (or many) orgasms right after. This is different than the continuous orgasm which is described next.

Continuous Orgasm: This is when your girl has an orgasm but instead of letting her sexual excitement come down (as many women think they have to because they are sensitive) you INSTEAD keep going and often even harder. This causes her to start orgasming UNCONTROLLABLY and over and over. With a continuous orgasm she will often be EXHAUSTED after and will always say she had not idea how many orgasms she had. 99% of women need to be verbally talked through a continuous orgasm as it is rare that previous lovers have EVER given this to her. She also has no way to do this herself through masturbation. If you give your girl this she just might become sexually addicted to you, so only do this with a girl you REALLY like!

Squirting Orgasm: Ah, the mysterious one! Well first of all I will tell you, squirting orgasms are VERY REAL and every woman has the "equipment" to have one! Actually getting your girl to experience one of these intense orgasms is a whole 'nother article altogether... but let's just say they're a lot of fun =)

...and there you have it. Being a girl does have SOME advantages =)

You can discover how to give your girl each and every one of these exciting orgasms  but for now... since foreplay orgasms are THE KEY to giving her PENETRATION ORGASMS, I'm going to show you how to give your girl a "deep spot" orgasm to start things off...

How to Give Her A Deep Spot Fingering Orgasm:

Step1) Make sure your hands and nails are clean and trimmed.. otherwise not only will you cut and irritate her skin but she will not have an orgasm.

Step 2) Warm up as usual kissing her, rubbing her, both of you get naked

Step 3) Insert your longest finger (middle finger) palm up inside of her and go AS FAR BACK as you can

Step 4) While kissing her and (then stopping kissing her as she gets REALLY turned on) push the tip of your finger into the top back wall of her vagina in a curling motion (go deep!)

Step 5) Start slow, then vary the speed and pressure according to her response, steadily increasing pressure and intensity as you go. Most women need around 5 minutes of this stimulation to have an orgasm, but it's different for everybody. One thing is for sure though... when she DOES finally have an orgasm this way, YOU WILL KNOW IT!

So now that you know how many different types of orgasms your girl can have... It's your job as a man to GIVE THEM TO HER.

Get to it! And if you want to find out how to give her each one of these easily (you can even give her ALL of them in one night!)

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