One complaint I hear from a lot of my female friends is that guys just don't know how to give a woman an orgasm, or they just don't care to. As a guy that prides himself on being able to get a woman off (hopefully multiple times), I have to say this just isn't acceptable. Sure, your orgasm is fun... but that's the easy part. The hard part, and the FUN part, is getting HER off!

This post assumes that you actually care about giving your lover an orgasm. If you don't, and you only care about cumming and going to sleep, then move on. If you do care, however, here are some of my time-tested techniques that will get her off both with her clit and her G-spot.

The cheapest, and all natural way to get her off via her clit is to use your tongue, your mouth, and your hands. Rub her clit gently, nibble on it, lick it, see what turns her on while you're doing it and soon you'll be giving her a mind blowing clitoral orgasm. Persistence pays off in this case, as some woman take longer than others to have an orgasm, but the chance of success is high if you do it right.

So what if you've done everything you possibly can and she still doesn't have a clitoral orgasm? That's when you bring in the big guns! Vibrators, and especially high power vibrators like the Hitachi Magic Wand or the Miracle Massager, will induce a mind blowing orgasm in her quite quickly. Some women can barely handle 30 seconds with the Magic Wand before they start going insane!

So what if your lover just isn't able to have an orgasm through stimulating her clitoris? Well, you can always try a G-spot orgasm. You'll have to work quite a bit harder for this, but it is possible. After an immense amount of foreplay, gently put one or two fingers up inside of her vagina and make a "come here" gesture towards you. You should pay attention to her body language to see if she is getting anything out of it. You'll definitely know when she starts feeling it, and then when she does, continue your motion and add some clitoral stimulation with a vibrator, your mouth, or your other hand.

If using your hand just isn't enough, there are attachments you can buy for the Magic Wand, as well as vibrators that are specifically designed for G-spot stimulation.

So what happens if none of these methods work and your lover just isn't capable of having an orgasm? Well, it is normal for a significant portion of the female population not to have an orgasm. Don't feel bad because you can't give her an orgasm, but instead feel great that you tried your best to give her one!

Are you looking for ways to make a girl wet?

Girls do get wet as when you arouse them to a certain level. However, it is not easy to get a girl wet. But don't worry, I can help you.

In order to get a girl wet in bed, what you do here is to try all ways to make her reach orgasm. There are basically 3 ways to make her orgasm:

1. Engage in prolonged foreplay. I can't stress seems to stress enough how important foreplay is. Many men tend to skip this and go straight to intercourse. Don't do that.

Naturally, women take a longer time to get aroused. When a woman is not aroused, she can't reach orgasm.  Foreplay is a good time to use your skills to make her reach maximum arousal level. Use your hand and tongue to stimulate all her erogenous zones such as breasts, neck, inner thighs, earlobes, abdomen, armpit, etc. Be thorough, but don't spend too much time on each area.

2. Go down on her. Cunnilingus or oral sex for women, is the single best way to make a woman orgasm. Spend at least 3 minutes to perform cunnilingus on her. Start with the outer lips and make your way to the clitoris. The clitoris is very sensitive to stimulation. If you use the right tongue techniques to lick her clitoris, she is going to explode into shaking orgasm.

One thing to note: Don't bite the clitoris. You will cause serious pain to her and this is a BIG TURN OFF.

3. Fingering her g-spot. Insert your finger into her vagina with your palm facing upward. Your first task is to locate the g-spot. It is situated somewhere at the front wall of the vagina. So use your finger to make a "come here" motion and try to feel a round, roughened area on the front wall. This is the G-Spot. Once you have located the g-spot, apply pressure to it. It should enlarge and feel more solid.

If you stimulate it correctly, you will feel her legs squeezing against your quads. This shows that she is near to orgasm! Go for the finishing line.

Making your girl wet by giving her an orgasm is a great way to satisfy her sexual desire. However, if you can't last long enough during intercourse (premature ejaculation), you are throwing your efforts to waste.

89% of all women asked, who admitted to being unfaithful to their male partner, said that they were driven to betrayal due to their man's inability to last long enough to allow her to have a vaginal orgasm.

Don't be one of them. If you are having problem to last long enough to satisfy her, check out the bonus tip below:

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