Being a good conversationalist is essential starting point. Nothing ruins the moment more than saying the first phrase and then sitting there looking at each other awkwardly… (Don’t worry, we've all gone through that). They key to being a good conversationalist is simple – talk about anything. Don’t worry about what you say, rather “how you say it.” It is tone of voice that defines your personality. If you can talk to her about anything in a casual and friendly way, then you’re already one step ahead of every guy out their thinking of the “right” thing to say to a woman but never does it!
The Art of Flirting
Whenever people are showing any kind of “interest” in each other, they are flirting. If women feel like you are flirting with them, they’ll subconsciously pick this up and start flirting back with you. Do this via one of two ways – communication and body language. Examples of communicating through flirting are complimenting on their qualities, agreeing with them, or laughing at their jokes even when their not that funny. Examples of body language are smiling, hugging, using your finger and bending it in a “come here” type manner. A good way to make flirting easier, if you’re not that good at it, is to pretend they like you already and everything they do or say to you means that they are interested in you.
The Art of Touching
Touching a woman, or skin to skin contact, is a vital component of your seduction game. A woman who is comfortable with you touching her will be comfortable with you kissing her. Be patient and don’t be afraid to go for it. Woman love a man who take action and most likely are waiting for you to touch them. (It releases tension also). Touching comes in many ways as long as you’re acting as if it’s no big deal. Examples might be putting your arm around her, holding her hand, giving her a hug, letting her sit on your lap, and letting her lie on you, massaging her hand, rubbing her back, massaging her shoulders, and grazing your fingertips on the surface on the arm.
The Art of Kissing
To get to any kind of romantic or intimate state with her, kissing is essential. When you guys are at a point where there’s not talking, but have obviously shared some chemistry, look at her as she looks at you. Be the first to take action. Go in slowly, lean in, and kiss her. If she opens her mouth, then lick the tip of your tongue at hers’. If you guys continue at it, she’ll likely get more aroused. Keep going. Create more anticipation; create more excitement; create more sexual tension. Keep going! She'll want you for more; she’ll urge you for more; and she'll demand you for more. Now is where you initiate the art of seduction.
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